If you consider yourself a nerd (or even if you're not sure) then you and your significant other will want to study this:
Funny stuff because it hits so close to home. It's a great read for both of you.
In addition to a lot of other interesting and humorous content on his site Michael Lopp (Rands) also wrote a book. The introductory web site Managing Humans is very clever.
One of the best articles on nerds (me) on the net. When my wife catches me not listening to her now she follows it by saying “Cool.”